The fear that we are not good enough. We often feel unworthy of love, to dirty for people to want…
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shame
What shame tells us (the message)?
Shame is a liar. It never tells the truth. And then these lies pop up in our soul and become…
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What does shame sound like?
The voice of shame is always accusatory, judgmental, and critical. It is never kind and encouraging, but instead condemning. It…
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What kinds of things can shame us?
Our past: Lack of education. Meager childhood. Abuse. Being bullied. Absent parent. Abortion. Divorce. Poor mistakes in Life. Sin. Our…
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Who feels shame?
All of us. If we are human, we have experienced shame. Please know, there is no shame in feeling shame….
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How does shame develop?
Shame develops when we misinterpret events, words, or actions that were done towards us (but were out of our control)….
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Do we feel shame all the time?
Not usually. Most of us have trigger points that bring up shame from the past and both similar and different…
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Is feeling shame our fault?
No. We often feel shame for something that was done to us and for something that was out of our…
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