Experiencing shame is part of being human. But we don't need to stay in shame. Learn to recognize it, heal from it, and walk in freedom. This is part 10 in a series on shame. If we are human, shame is a part of our life. It's something we don't want to experience, but we ... Read More
Things to Remember
Why We Use Shame On Others and Ourselves: 6 Eye Opening Reasons
We often use shame others to get our own way, and yet the success rate is low, because it usually doesn't produce lasting results. So why do we do it? And what does it say about us? Learn 6 eye opening reasons we shame others. This is post 9 in a series on shame. "Can't you put ... Read More
Combat Shame by Knowing Your True Identity
Shame affects our identity by telling lies about who we are. To combat shame we need to know our true identity. Who we are. Where we come from. Our purpose. Our worth. This is post 8 in a series on shame. I glanced at my husband's bed. He was gone. Everyone was up but me. I ... Read More
Shame Versus Guilt: What’s the Big Difference?
Guilt and shame may look like cousins, but they have a lot of big differences. Learn how these two differ and the remedy for each. This is post 7 in a series on shame. Guilt and shame. I used to think they were practically the same. Maybe cousins who looked a lot alike. Maybe ... Read More
How to Replace the World’s Lies With God’s Truth
5 ways to replace the lies we believe with truth. Our beliefs influence our attitudes, choices, behavior, expectations, and the stories we tell our self. So, let's replace the lies we believe with truth. God's truth. For years I tried to appear like Mary Poppins. "Practically ... Read More
12 Ways That Misinterpreting Events Causes Shame
Once we feel the emotions of shame, what causes us to misinterpret the event and believe a lie about our identity? Here are 12 perfectly normal reasons we blame our self. Hint: we are trying to make sense of what's happening. This is post 6 in a series on shame. We as humans try ... Read More
The Symptoms of Shame and the 4 Ways It Makes You Feel
To deal with shame and the lies it is telling us, learn the 4 ways that shame makes us feel. This is post 5 in a series on shame. Shame. It's an uncomfortable feeling we try to avoid. It's also a perfectly natural and normal emotion for us to experience. Remember: Shame ... Read More
Environments Where Shame Thrives
Shame thrives in some environments more than others. Learn which 11 environments help shame flourish. But how none are the cause of shame. This is post 4 in a series on shame. Shame itself is not bad or evil. Shame is just another emotion we feel, like anger, sadness, happiness, ... Read More
