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Theresa Boedeker

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Life is a wonderful and messy adventure.

Sometimes we enjoy the journey, and other times we are so busy trying to contain the mess and straighten up the crashing timbers falling into our path that we miss out on the wonder, laughter, beauty, and bittersweet moments that are calling for us to notice. So slow down, take a deep breath, laugh at the craziness and try not to miss out on the love, grace, and blessings from God that surround us and make life so enjoyable.

I write a blog and create a podcast, using words to unwrap the mysteries of life.

My goal is to encourage, provide hope, and inspire you in your journey of life. With a little humor thrown in.

The blog is Things to Remember. Many posts include narrative stories that reflect on life and show how simple moments and everyday details point to God and His truth. I help you remember your worth, see the beauty in your everyday life, and be reminded of God’s grace that surrounds us all.

The podcast is called Life as it Comes. Most are funny stories concerning life and its misadventures – because we all need a laugh now and then to keep going and see things a little clearer.

Please enjoy and be encouraged by both.

Theresa

 

Latest Posts:

We often know ourselves. But how well do we know our mates?

How Knowing Your Husband Can Impact Him for Good

 

 

 

 

 

Here's how to stop focusing on what's wrong and notice what's right.How to Stop Focusing on What’s Wrong with You

 

 

 

 

 

 

We know that we are a combination of good and bad. And we assume that maybe God is too.Is God Good All the Time?

 

 

 

 

 

Criticism is inevitable, learn not to bite the bait.Don’t Bite the Bait: How to Respond to Criticism

 

 

 

 

 

As women we are told to take care of ourselves. But when we do, why do we feel guilty?Why We Feel Guilty for Taking Care of Ourselves

 

 

 

 

 

 

We hear about self-care, but why should we as Christian women care for ourselves? Here's 5 reasons to motivate us.5 Motivating Reasons for Christian Women to Engage in Self-Care

 

 

 

 

 

We can quit measuring our self-worth. It comes from God and is a free gift.What Measuring Stick Do You Use to Determine Your Self-Worth?

 

 

 

 

Accepting Christmas as it ComesWe are graced with more good gifts then our hands can hold, enough to pass on to those around us. Perspective helps us count our blessings and notice the graces this life holds. How is your perspective? #gratitude #attitude #encouragement #remembering what's important

 

 

 

 

There is no perfect way to celebrate Christmas.How to Celebrate Christmas (Even When You Don’t Know How)

 

 

 

 

 

Bibliotherapy: What It Is and How It Helps YouBibliotherapy is something you may already be experiencing but didn't know you were.

 

 

 

 

 

Why My Mug Shot Is on the Wall of a Winery

 

 

 

 

 

How People Influence Our View of GodHow People Influence Our View of God

 

 

 

 

 

Sometimes rest and relaxation are found in the most unlikely places.Finding Rest Under a Large Paper Napkin

 

 

 

 

 

 

Living in Freedom Versus Condemnation

Guest post at Living By Design Ministries

 

 

 

 

Life was supposed to be easy. And then it turned hard. So, why is life so hard?Why is Life Harder Than We Imagined?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fancy Free Podcase Episode 121Fancy Free Podcast Episode 121

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Others Junk and a See-Through Trunk

 

 

 

 

 

The Comparison Game of Apples and Oranges

 

 

 

 

 

Redeeming Life’s Detours

 

 

 

 

 

How to Appreciate Your Body 

Guest Post at Kindred Mom (Enjoying My Good-As-It-Gets Body)

 

 

 

 

The Challenging Sleepover: Letting Go One Decision at a Time

Guest Post at Kindred Mom

 

 

 

 

What Makes Your Soul Sing and Nurtures Your Heart?

Guest Post at Wow! Women On Writing

Write So a Piece of Your Doesn’t Die

 

 

 

Life is in a constant state of flux.Will Life Ever Return to Normal?

 

 

 

 

 

 

A woman changes when she becomes a momma.If You Give a Mom a Pie

 

 

 

 

 

Color can equal happiness.For the Love of Color

 

 

 

 

 

 

None of us like being judged, condemned, and told what is wrong with us. Especially if we didn't ask for itGuilty Before Questioned

 

 

 

 

 

Life is not always fair. Here are 6 things we can do about it.When Life Is Not Fair: 6 Things You Can Do About It

 

 

 

 

 

The 10 benefits of a slight smile are powerful.The Power of a Slight Smile

 

 

 

 

 

 

Conquer spiritual shame by knowing who God says you are.Spiritual Shame: What It Is and How to Conquer It

 

 

 

 

 

Give yourself grace, especially for the small things you get wrong or forget to do.Quit Beating Yourself Up Over the Small Things

 

 

 

 

 

Don't dread being an amateur. Beginnings are filled with adventures and opportunities. Relax and enjoy them.Don’t Dread Being An Amateur

 

 

 

 

 

Sometimes the hero of our story is already chosen for us. Who Is the Hero of Your Story?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Savoring Books: Why They Keep on Giving

 

 

 

 

 

When we base our self-worth on the right things, our worth will not fluctuateWhy Our Worth Fluctuates More Than a Stock Market Commodity

 

 

 

 

 

 

Stop letting fear keep you from living life to the fullest.Don’t Let Fear Keep You From Living

 

 

 

 

 

 

One yes can change the world.Imagine If You Can, How a Yes Changed the World

 

 

 

 

 

 

We have the ability to live between and experience two extremes.Embracing the Extremes of Life: How and Why We Can Do This

 

 

 

 

 

Counting Blessings on a Card Table

 

 

 

 

 

How to Not Listen, and Make Enemies Faster than You Do FriendsHow to Already Never Be Listening (What Not to Do)

 

 

 

 

 

Are You Weary and Tired? 10 Things to Remember

 

 

 

 

 

To deal with shame and the lies it is telling us, we need to learn the 4 ways that shame makes us feel.Hold Loosely To Your Opinions

Guest post at Just Between Us

 

 

 

 

Who Are You Impacting? 

Guest post at Blogs for Christian Women

 

 

 

 

 

With most things wiped off our schedules, now is the perfect time to revamp your life.Revamping Your Life: Why Now is the Perfect Time

 

 

 

 

 

 

We don't deserve grace, but we all need grace. We All Need Underserved Grace

Guest Post at Candidly Cristian

 

 

 

 

We all want to live in a shame free world. But what if shame has a bigger purpose than us?What If Shame Has a Bigger Purpose Than Us?

Post 11 in a series on shame

 

 

 

 

 

Experiencing shame is part of being human. Learn to recognize it, heal from it, and walk in freedom.Shame: Recognize It, Heal From It, Walk in Freedom

Post 10 in a series on shame

 

 

 

 

What are the 6 reasons we shame others?Why We Use Shame on Others and Ourselves: 6 Eye Opening Reasons

Post 9 in a series on shame

 

 

 

 

To combat shame we need to know our true identity. Who we are. Where we come from. Our purpose. Our worth.Combat Shame by Knowing Your True Identity

Post 8 in a series on shame

 

 

 

 

 

Learn how guilt and shame are very different.Shame Versus Guilt: What’s the Big Difference?

Post 7 in a series on shame

 

 

 

 

5 ways to replace lies with truth.How to Replace the World’s Lies With God’s Truth

Guest post at Living By Design Ministries

 

 

 

 

 

 

Here are 12 Perfectly Normal Reasons that Cause us to Believe the Lies of Shame.12 Ways That Misinterpreting Events Causes Shame

Post 6 in a series on shame

 

 

 

 

To deal with shame and the lies it is telling us, we need to learn the 4 ways that shame makes us feel.The Symptoms of Shame and the 4 Ways It Makes You Feel

Post 5 in a series on shame

 

 

 

 

Shame thrives in some environments more than others.Environments Where Shame Thrives

Post 4 in a series on shame

 

 

 

 

 

The lies of shame want to tell us we are the defective ones, the unworthy and unlovable ones. But truth can break the bonds of shame.How the Lies of Shame Cause Us to Think We Are the Defective Ones

Post 3 in a series on shame

 

 

 

 

Shame is a warning flag that something needs dealing with.There is No Shame in Feeling Shame

Post 2 in a series on shame

 

 

 

 

 

 

Shattering your feelings of unworthiness. Because you are not meant to live in shame.You Are Not Meant to Live in Shame

Post 1 in a series on shame

 

 

 

 

 

The possibilities for old or lone socks are endless. No longer will you ask, what to do with old socks. Reuse and recycle those unused socks into new ideas.Sock Solutions that Bedazzle

 

 

 

 

7 ways Christmas and telling a joke are alike.Remembering the Most Important Part of the Story: 7 Ways Christmas and Telling a Joke Are Alike

 

 

 

 

Allowing flexibility in our expectations and plans allows us to enjoy life more fully.Adjusting Expectations So Your Soul Can Breathe

 

 

 

 

 

Learning about yourself is an ongoing process because we are multifaceted. Turns out some mistakes turn into good things . . .because you can learn something new about yourselfThere’s Gotta Be Some Sort of Mistake: How Learning About Yourself is an Ongoing Process

 

 

 

 

 

Telling someone "we are sorry," doesn’t right a wrong. Doesn't change the circumstances. But it is one of the greatest gifts we can give another.One of the Greatest Gifts We Can Give Another

 

 

 

 

 

  Learn to embrace the winding little road to happiness. The Winding Little Road to Happiness

 

 

 

 

 

Sometimes it is better to listen more than talk. Learn the qualities of a good listener.    Sometimes it is Better to Listen, Than Talk 

 

 

 

 

 

Problems arise when we hold our opinions so tightly that we argue and fight over them. Learn to hold your opinions loosely.

What if We Quit Holding Our Opinions So Tightly?

 

 

 

 

 

 

How the lies of negative self-talk hurt more than just us. The Heart We Are Breaking When We Lie About Our Self

 

 

 

 

 

  How the lies of negative self-talk hurt more than just us. Stop Being Embarrassed About Your Superpower, Ladies, and Instead Embrace It

 

 

 

 

 

 

The past influences our present life until we start talking about the past, asking questions, and reframing the story to include new truths.   Reframing the Truth in an Old Story

 

 

 

 

 

 

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